You find a plant
You nurture it with love
You give it water and sunshine from above
One day when the plant has grown big
Every time you touch it, the thorns prick.
Why does love hurt you wonder?
But this isn’t the first time remember?
The boy you gave a card to in fifth grade
Who threw it away because you weren’t his type.
The one in high school who never replied to your texts
Then you gave up on love, that was the best.
But you found a friend who you could talk to
But when you confused friendship with love, he laughed at you.
Then came one when you were 21,
Who gave you love and attention and said you were the one
Slowly, your midnight conversations took a romantic turn.
You began to await his calls and to meet him for coffee
But once he realized your love, he tossed you like a second prize trophy.
And you watched him love someone else over you for years
He indifferently watched you suffer and In tears.
Then you find someone who reciprocates your emotions
But soon, you realize it was false devotion.
The promises of love turn to bitter venom spewed
Your love is reborn as hate anew.
He yells at you when you’re stressed, treating you like stale bread
Something to fill his lonely life with, but not something to cherish
He holds on to you because he is afraid he won’t find some other girl
So he throws at you scraps of love
And like a porcelain doll, you twirl.
The thorns of love prick you hard
You bleed and bleed
But the pain won’t stop.
The thorn is stuck too deep inside
The wound is cut open wide.
So you gulp down the pain and the tears
And you continue to live in this realm of love or fear.
Toxic love that drains your heart
But a little doll, you play your part.
– Sneha Pathak